Everyone knows you better be on the ball when your significant other hits you with the dreaded "Do I look pretty" question. One husband found out the hard way that you don’t simply pretend not to hear it. But what can that teach us about the "bids" that we’re missing in our own relationships, and how many does it take to really change things? Also, it may not be the best furniture in the world, but it can feel really good to take that box of Ikea parts and turn it into a chair or a bookshelf. The "Ikea Effect" is real and can be seen in many places beyond the floor of your living room. While you’re piecing together that new curio cabinet, check out this new episode of Second Shot! (Don’t worry, we did all the work for you)